How to find topics when falling in love: An inventory of hot topics on the Internet in the past 10 days
In love, how to find the right topic is a problem for many people. Whether it is a first date or a long-term relationship, the choice of topic directly affects the quality of communication between the two parties. This article combines the hot topics and hot content on the Internet in the past 10 days to compile a practical "topic finding guide" for you to help you and your partner chat easily.
1. Category inventory of hot topics
According to the data analysis of social platforms (Weibo, Douyin, Zhihu, etc.) in the past 10 days, the following topics have received the most attention:
| topic type | Popular keywords | Heat Index (Reference) |
|---|---|---|
| Entertainment film and television | "Flowers" ending, Jia Ling's weight loss, Spring Festival movies | ★★★★★ |
| daily life | New Year’s Eve dinner ideas, winter outfits, and interesting things about raising pets | ★★★★ |
| emotional psychology | "Cliff breakup", sense of love ritual, emotional value | ★★★★ |
| Technology digital | Vision Pro experience, AI tool recommendations, mobile photography skills | ★★★ |
2. How to cut into the topic cleverly?
1.Starting from common interests: Based on the other party’s social dynamics or chat habits, select content that they may be interested in. For example:
| Interest of the other party | Topics available for discussion |
|---|---|
| Like to follow dramas | "Have you watched "Flowers" recently? Do you think Mr. Bao and Lingzi are better suited to each other or Miss Wang?" |
| Passionate about food | “I found the internet celebrity’s New Year’s Eve cake. If so, what creative dish would you make?” |
2.Lead with open-ended questions: Avoid "yes/no" answers, for example:
❌"Do you like dogs?" → ✅"What is your ideal pet life like?"
3. Avoid minefield topics
Topics that have been controversial in the past 10 days need to be mentioned with caution:
| Minefield type | Example |
|---|---|
| Sensitive social events | Controversies over regional discrimination and gender opposition |
| negative content | Workplace complaints and negative news are overly discussed |
4. Long-term topic maintenance skills
1.Create a "topic library": Record the preferences mentioned by the other party (for example, "They mentioned that they want to learn baking"), and you can follow up later: "Have you tried the cookie recipe you mentioned last time?"
2.Combined with hot updates: Pay attention to 1-2 new trends every week (such as the recently popular "ChatGPT Emotional Counseling"), and naturally bring it into the chat: "I heard that AI can now be a love counselor. Do you think it is reliable?"
Through the above structured method, it can not only solve the embarrassment of "having nothing to talk about", but also make communication more in-depth. Remember:Good topics are bridges, sincere listening is the core.
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